Comfortable with being sexual?

Okay so how do you get comfortable with being sexy? I was molested at 8 for almost two years so I know that has something to do with it. If anyone has advice on how they got comfortable with being sexy that’s been through the same thing before it would be much appreciated.

I just always feel like sex isn’t for me, like I’m not supposed to be doing it but everyone else can. Please help me get in contact with that inner goddess.

ASLO how do you feel comfortable saying sexual things to your partner, like when I say stuff I don’t say it in a sexy voice so that may be why I feel uncomfortable? Maybe I should try to sexy my voice up a bit and it’ll feel more natural ?

I’m slightly new to sex so how do you think of dirty talk on the fly?? Will it get better with time?