It’s your husbands birthday.... He decides to go out and go bowling with friends and wants you to bring our 2 month old baby.... I tell him a bowling alley is loud and dirty and no place for a 2 month old. He says ok he’s going to go but will be back. He doesn’t text you, or call you until 5 hours later and says something was wrong with his phone but he should be home soon so we can spend some of his birthday as a family. 2 more hours go by it’s now 9pm he’s still not home and just out with friends doing who knows what but again says he will head home at 11pm. Baby wakes up at 4am still not home... now it’s 7am and he’s not home.

I’m so upset and disappointed he chose friends (who are childless and single) over spending his birthday with us. He has a habit of going out drinking and saying he will be back before 12 and comes home after 3/4 and always has an excuse. I don’t think he would ever cheat on me truthfully I don’t think he could. But I am just so upset and furious. I feel so disrespected and a little resentful 😫