Ladies I need your help.

My boyfriend thinks that it is hot & sexy, but I think that it trashy and nasty.

Ok I am currently 209 pounds I am still not comfortable on how I look on the outside. I still want to lose 75 more pounds and then hopefully I'll feel comfortable in my skin again.

Anyways my boyfriend is wanting me to go out in town wearing very short and revealing Skirts, dresses, and shorts with no underwear or just thongs. he always wants me to go out without wearing any bras and no I'm not comfortable with that at all because, I hear other women whispering and judging me and it does hurt me

he insist that he doesn't hear anyone talk about me like and instead he sees other men looking at me and saying stuff like they want to F*** me I just don't see it at all..

anyways in your opinion if you saw a 209 pound women wearing a Short revealing dress, short, or skirt on and you could see her nipples through her clothing would you think that, that is Trashy??