Leaking

Kt

So after intense search on internet I still can’t seem to figure out if I’m leaking or peeing lmao 😂 I have peed a little when I sneeze but not every time and I drink crazy amount of water so my pee is clear at all times so if it gets on underwear after sneeze attack it’s still clear pee not yellow. Nowww tho past week or so I have gone to the bathroom to find little circle wet spot on underwear no stain and don’t recall peeing myself but I could be. Idk. And what scared me today was I was standing watching my son play and I “felt” it come out? I thought I bleed for a little and went to the bathroom to check just to find circle wet spot. I haven’t gotten myself to smell my underwear yet but I was wondering if anyone did leak and knew right away the difference or it’s too similar to tell to where I need to get test at my ob.??????