Very close friends...

Okay, I’ve been stressing myself out over this since the moment that test was positive. This is our 3rd baby, 4th pregnancy. (Miscarried after 1st baby)

We have very close friends who are married and have been trying for baby for well over a year with no luck at all. My husband and I have witnessed first hand how angry he/she have gotten over the announcements of close family/friends getting pregnant before them. (I understand how stressful it is for them too) but this is our 3rd baby together and they love our other two just like their own and I know announcing this to them will crush them and I also feel that they should have no right to be angry at us for our decision. But I’m not sure if how I’m feeling is right or wrong. Part of me says, it’s not my fault they can’t get pregnant, then the other part of me is just torn into pieces for them. I’m so nervous to tell them. And we see them a few times a week in our house so it’s not like they won’t find out sooner or later.

If anyone has went through something similar PLEASE share stories! Thank you ladies!