My “Friend” unfriended me for being pregnant

I just need to rant...

This morning I woke up to a text from a friend ive had for about 3 years telling me that the friendship wasnt good for her and that she was done.

So im like okay? What did I do?

So I asked the above question and she’s basically upset that I care more about my unborn child than I did about her wedding day. My husband and I dont have a lot of money which is why we are saving up by staying with my parents and I am currently 27 weeks + 5 and her wedding was last weekend. My husband and I were supposed to get married next month but had to move the date up as we found out that we were pregnant in May. We got married September 23rd 2018 and when our honeymoon ended her bridal shower was a day and a half later. I ended up not being able to go and I felt horrible because I was a bridesmaid, but because of elevation change and flying I had to deal with a few medical issues in my hands and feet and it was not recommended that I drive especially since it was 45 minutes away and my car is completely unreliable. So I also missed her bachelorette party because they were over an hour a way drinking and playing games in st pete and I have an unreliable car with no one to take me. Not to mention my husband and I were uncomfortable with me being alone at night an hour away with unreliable transportation and no money to spend in an emergency. As it got closer my husband informed me that we would not have the money to spend 85$ on the make up to be done because the car business was not successful that month also considering that we had our own wedding just weeks before and we owe a monthly payment to my drs office for about the same amount you could rent an apt. But I felt bad backing out so her mother found someone else to pay for it so crisis averted and I apologized a million times and even offered to pay it back. Well during the wedding I was miserably hot in a chiffon dress outside in the Florida heat while having cramps in my stomach and ginormous feet. I also had to borrow someone else’s car to get to the wedding because mine was having issues again after being fixed. Again. My husband and I decided it was time for a decent car, so he took one in on trade the other day and talked to his boss about how much they could give it to him for with his discount and we got a great deal on a used Mini that doesn’t need payments until were done with our baby bill. My husband is super excited and posting it on Facebook and then this morning my “friend” accuses me of lying and is incredibly rude and tells me my child is nothing special and that her doctor visits for her physical issues probably cost more than mine do. I was being very civilized and adult like until she said my baby wasn’t special. I went off on her and the friend she had message me on Facebook. Im 24 and shes 23. Im to old for this shit. She wants an apology for me caring more about my child than her.

Nope.

Im not here to try and make everyone happy which I tend to try and do. Pre pregnant me wouldn’t even be in this situation because I wouldn’t have everything going on that I do right now. I would be waiting to get married on November 4th instead of waiting for my baby shower. But it didn’t work out that way and honestly im not that girl anymore. I look at life differently now, even before we got married. Because before may 15 2018 I wasn’t a soon to be mother, I was planning my wedding and now I don’t worry about me anymore. I worry about him, because I am all he currently knows except for his fathers voice. He depends on me and me alone to do what is right for him right now and people just dont seem to get that.