Should my boyfriend be upset with me for being emotional and withdrawn after I had a miscarriage?

Question

I didn't want to get pregnant but I did anyways. The miscarriage was terrifying and painful and really hurt me physically and emotionally, so I've been more closed off these past few weeks. My boyfriend says that is enough to justify being upset with me, but I really think that's an unfair opinion considering that he didn't have to go through any of this, and didn't ever ask if I was okay or ever check up on me.

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He needs to be more understanding, but so do you.
You BOTH lost a child, not just you. You both need to heal. 
If what you need is space, then that’s what he should give you, but at the same time, maybe he’s upset because he’s hurting too and his way of healing is different from yours. While you need space, he might need comfort 
Maybe you 2 need to talk about everything and see if you can figure  out how to get through this together

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I'm so sorry that happened to you. You need to take care of yourself, and your bf should be taking care of you, too - but make sure you aren't closing yourself off and pushing bf away. I know I did that when I had my first mc. I blamed my bf (now hubby) for not understanding what I was going through and being insensitive, but I refused to open up to him. But again, I'm so sorry for you! Sending thoughts and prayers your way. It will get easier.

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my partner turned to another chick ( his ex ) after i lost our first 2 months after I lost our first actually, said it was my fault because I pushed him away which i never did at all he was just using that as an excuse to tell his ex he will always love her and he misses her 🤷‍♀️

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He shouldn’t be upset with you but also please consider his feelings.

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Forget him he didn’t have to feel that pain, so no he shouldn’t feel no way he need to give you your space if he not gone help you get through it , a miscarriage is enough to break a woman down.

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Maybe he’s upset because you don’t understand that he could be feeling pain as well? & it seems you feel he shouldn’t be either

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Yes he is being insensitive but to say he didnt have to go through any of this, it wasnt just your baby.

Should my boyfriend be upset with me for being emotional and withdrawn after I had a miscarriage?

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