Cliff notes: husband works off shore. He has a son from a previous relationship. We decided we’d try for max a year to have a kid together. But he works off shore so he’s only home every other month. Last month was our first month trying, and although he was actually here for my whole ovulation cycle we weren’t lucky enough to conceive on the first try. But I just checked the schedule for the next two months. Hubby comes home November 9 and leaves December 5. Safe to say the next two cycles are useless... nobody in our family/friend group knows we’re trying and I know there’s still a chance we could conceive. But I’m just feeling down and could use some positive thoughts.