When did SO & spouses

Nicole • Wife, and mother to a beautiful baby boy 💙💙 3.2.19

Im a bigger woman and i know the outside world wont probably feel baby move for awhile but im feel him move now. The question is when did SO & spouses start to talk to baby? My husband refuses to now and say he wont start until he can feel baby move.. im 19+3

Am i crazy to think he should start asap? Or is he right? 🤔🤔