This morning I received this early birthday present from the gods:

I already have a son who is 7 months. But my fiancé and I are excited. Unfortunately, we currently live with my mom, but we were already getting our shit ready to move out anyway. But I still don’t think I’m going to tell her until we’re closer to that. Pretty sure she’ll be disappointed.

But we’re on the right path. We have steady jobs now and I’m in college.

Question though. I’ve been going on and on about legally buying alcohol on my birthday so it will be really weird if I don’t. I’m only about 4 weeks pregnant. Would wine hurt it if I only drank a little? I don’t want anyone getting suspicious.

Also, I drank vodka about a week ago. Would that cause harm to my baby? I obviously didn’t know I was pregnant at the time as I’m still about 3-4 days from my expected period. So it was too early to know.

Update: thanks for the suggestions guys! I know there have been recent studies that moderately drinking is not likely to be harmful. That said I’m very early in the pregnancy and already feel bad that I had 2-3 shots of vodka 😥 Normally I would just not drink obviously but like I said it’s my 21st bday and for the last month I’ve kept talking about how I’m going to buy alcohol so it’s just going to be weird if I don’t and I don’t want my family to find out yet. I’m thinking I’ll just order a glass of wine, take a few sips and say I don’t like it. I’ve never had wine so it’ll be believable.