We dated fine, Married fine, but as soon as after birth, everything has changed. Just seems like he’s never happy about me. I tried to listen, I do dishes, I work 40 hrs +. The girl is almost 2 yrs old. I put baby first before anything else. He is constantly complaining something about me. I have no idea why he’s so crabby! Sometimes I rather have him to work travel or I go work travel. Every time I was excited about him smiling and then it goes downhill complaining about me. I can’t even put myself first. I would put baby, husband, before I can do anything for myself like washing my hair or get nails done while she naps and all he has to do is sit there while she naps. I can’t even talk about my work and I don’t or not as often anymore. Why is keeping marriage so difficult and why did it change after birth? I understand when I was sleep deprived but I thought it would get better now that she’s sleeping thru the night.