Okay so I’m a cis lesbian and my girlfriend is a trans lesbian.

For our first time, I mean of course I think it’s going to be great, but with her being trans I just want her to be as comfortable as possible.

We’ve had sex on skype before (mutual masturbation, long distance, hard to explain). We’ve made out in person and gone to second base (boobs). But that’s all.

I think my main thing is that I think she’s going to push herself to do things, or let me do things with her that will make her dysphoric, and I love her. I don’t want that.

Please note that she and I are 1000% ready. This isn’t a matter of not being ready. We’ve been together for over 3 years. This would be the case regardless.

Just, if you have any advice, please help

Thanks