BDSM 🐱

I really love being controlled and would love to get into BDSM again. With some of my exs it just came naturally but with my husband he really isn't in to that. He gets turned on by the thought of BDSM but to actually become a dominant, well that's a different story. Any tips on how to help him to at least experiment with it a bit? What are some tips on how to slowly introduce it into our sex lives?

I've always been a submissive so I've never had to bring this up, it's always just happened.