Fucking frustrated.

I know I probably shouldn’t be bitching about this, but I’m seriously annoyed and sexually frustrated with the lack of oral sex my partner preforms. I do it for him EVERY TIME he asks with no hesitation. Like he gets mad when I don’t cum but he doesn’t put in the effort??? Doesn’t care about turning me on or even enjoying the act of making love. I’ve communicated multiple times how I feel idk what to do besides couples counseling. Any advice?? We’ve been together for almost 2 years