7weeks postpartum

So I had my baby girl 7 weeks ago. She’s perfect. I was cleared to continue all my regular activities 2 weeks ago. My husband has respectfully been begging for sex. 😬 I had a vaginal birth and had 1st degree tear, he saw everything! How is he not traumatized? I am so not ready to have sex I still feel tender down there. plus our daughter won’t sleep unless she is next to me attached to the boob or sometimes my nipple just has to be touching her.😂 So my question is how long did you wait to have sex?