How do I not make him feel bad?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months, we live together and are always having sex. However, he has been circumcised and has had the snip (making sure he isn’t aloud to have children anymore) therefore we don’t use protection (could be risky 🤷‍♀️ Ik) but he always seems to come really quickly.

2nite I was sucking him off for about 3-5 mins and he came, every time he does this it gets me worked up and he always feels really bad for it. And I don’t know how to sort it.

but I’ve been doing some research and it’s usually common to come quickly when uncircumcised.
What can I do to not make him feel bad and leave me to feel super shit due to the build up for nothing.... HELPPPPP?!

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I'm so confused. You said he was circumcised but the problem was common for those who are uncircumcised.

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Have y’all tried having sex shortly after he comes? If you make him cum quickly, then he has a chance you pleasure you until he’s ready to go again. MOST of the time it takes guys a little longer to cum the 2nd time

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3-5 minutes seems totally normal to me for a regular Joe(not a sex God). Also if you know this is an issue don't do a lot of foreplay especially on him, do things you like that get you closer. Get as much pleasure for you before any riding then hopefully you'll both will finish about the same time. Side note I don't come all the time so I don't focus on it, I just try to enjoy as much as I can and please my husband as much as I can.

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Had this problem with my ex. Get him a cock ring. Makes the guy last longer and cum harder.

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When I orgasm first and then I have sex with hubby it feels better for me. When I’m really into it and could likely orgasm during penetration (hasn’t happened yet) he gets more into it and cums faster. The enjoyment is definitely better for me during that time even if it isn’t quite as long as I might need. 
Try having him finish you first and use that as light foreplay for him, touching him while he gets you off. Then your senses will be heightened and he will get some foreplay without cuming first. That way he will be waiting for “his turn” and be horny pleasuring you and getting touched without nutting. If you don’t do penetration when you feel close you can ramp up on him and try to orgasm at the same time, but even if he still does it first you’ll be close and the mood won’t be killed.

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Skip the foreplay for him and tbh he needs to learn how to hold back. I’ve slept with a few uncircumcised guys and it’s totally possible for them to hold off. 
Maybe he can try, when he feels like he’s gonna cum, he stops and switches to fingering you or eating you out. 
Idk how experienced he is, but like, this stuff is fairly basic. If he cares abt making you cum he should be trying stuff already to solve this himself. 
But anyway, just talk to him about it. Being open and honest is the only way to fix it, he should be open to hearing this stuff cos he should care as much about getting you off as he doesn’t about getting himself off 🤷‍♀️ it might still be awkward but openly discussing it is the best way

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Every guy is different, he just doesn’t last long, just have him do some hand or mouth stuff on you to build it up for him again and then have sex again

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Use condoms or a lube with a numbing agent. Or tell him to pop one off in the morning, because it usually takes longer for the second time around.

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Girl every time my husband puts it in me her cums pretty much immediately. You work around it. Give head but stop and start again each time he gets close. Make sure he gets you off first or plans to after with oral or something else.

How do I not make him feel bad?

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