Can’t get my husband motivated to help..

I’m 27 weeks with twins & I have been trying so hard to get my husband motivated to get the house ready for the babies, but it’s not happening.

I’m slowing down myself & I’ve been pushing myself too much lately so I’ve been resting a bit more now. Well that seems to be giving him the okay to “rest” more too. if I’m not moving and organizing & getting things prepared, he’s not either. (I’ve been swelling more so I need to put my feet up, & I haven’t been sleeping well so I’ve been napping in the day), he’ll lay on the couch all day and play video games. & when I say something about nothing getting done, he’ll ask “well what am I supposed to do?” In an attitude. (We have a large list of things to do!)

I tried to get him motivated to help me before I got to this point & I warned him once I slow down, he’s on his own & I knew this would start stressing me out bc I knew if I wasn’t helping as much, he wouldn’t be doing it on his own. So I’ve been having to ask for extra help from mom, & I’ve been pushing myself to my limits once again because these babies can come soon & we need to be ready. He’s just making it impossible for me to rest more.

Has anyone else went through this with their significant other? ☹️