Name change..?

I love the name Violet. My mom had basically ruined it for me saying thats not my baby's name. Saying "i have a feeling" blah blah blah... im starting to doubt myself. We always had a complicated relationship and i dont know if im doubting the name now because of her, or if im actually doubting the name. I love it but idk what to do. I always felt like when you know you know. Now i have all this pressure on her name...any advice or tips are appreciated