Rant: irritated

So right now my husband and I are not on speaking terms. We didn’t get into a fight or anything yet, but I’m mad at him so I’m not talking to him. For the past week or so, he keeps telling me “we’re gona go out” blah blah so I get ready and everything. And LAST minute, he decides he doesn’t want to go out. I’ve been patient but today was the last straw. Yesterday he’d been talking about how he wanted to spend the day with our daughter (she’s 2) and with me. That we were gona go out and blah blah. So I was excited for today. He went to work and came home early, and I got our baby ready and I got ready myself. And what did we do? Nothing. We drove around a little bit then came straight home. I told him that we should go to the mall so our daughter could at least play and he said “tomorrow” and buried his damn head in his phone. He has an uncle that’s staying over and once in a while agrees to watch our daughter in case she wakes up. So we go out when I put her to sleep. Anyways we made plans this evening to go see a movie. Which I’d been waiting for the longest time and my husband ASSURED Me we were going. There was a 9 pm showing and a 10 pm showing. I’d told him if he didn’t feel like going to flat out tell me so I wouldn’t get excited, then disappointed and I’d be okay with it. He was like “no we’ll go, I really want to see it too” so I put our daughter to sleep at 8 and when I came out my husband was in the room laying down. Then he asked if it was ok if he took a nap and that we’d go to the 10 pm showing. I was like ok. Then he took his nap and didn’t wake up til 10. He woke and said “we’ll go tomorrow” I got mad obviously. I’m just so irritated that he does that. If he didn’t want to go I’m 100% fine with that. Just tell me beforehand so I don’t get excited about something. 😩: