would you be mad/hurt?

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my husband leaves all hours of the night to go to his moms and always wants to be over there he has no interest in being home with me he calls me a crazy bitch it i confront him about it and i dont have anywhere to go with my 2 year old and im quiet honestly out of ideas on what to do.

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Hell yeah id be hurt/pissed. Are you sure he’s at his mom’s and not cheating? And if he is over there, why is he with you if he wants to be a grown baby under his mom all the time? I say you give him an ultimatum, if he doesnt stop going so much then you’ll (whatever will hit him where it hurts) just come up w something that if he doesnt stop, your action will impact him more in the long run.

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The first time my husband called me a crazy bitch I would be gone. That’s emotional abuse.

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I’m sorry but do you really believe he leaves during the night to go to his moms? There’s something seriously wrong with this picture..

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Omg my bf is a mama’s boy and his mom annoys the hell out of me!!! She hates me idk whyyy so when he goes especially if I’m off and home. I feel he’s choosing me over her. For you though, I would go with him? Do things all together. Or maybe its just he needs space from you and the baby. Which isn’t wrong as long as you can do the same!

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Send the 2 year old with him and start making plans to go out more. If he's just at moms then he shouldn't have no problem taking the baby. If there's a problem then yall seriously need to wait down and talk it out.

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Maybe stop “confronting” him and have a real TALK with him.  Personally I can’t hear shit a person says when they “confront” me. Instinct pushes me into self defense mode and I’ll be like “fuck you, I love my Mom and if you can’t deal with it then you have the problem”.  Change your approach and since you’ve been “confronting” him, which is just another word for being confrontational, it may take time for him to hear you.

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My husband is a mamas boy and is always at his moms. But just to stop by and talk and stuff. He’s not there for hours.  I deal with it because that’s his MOM. He wouldn’t say anything about my mom coming here

would you be mad/hurt?

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