So first things first, I’m 20 years old and I’ve sex plenty of times. I’ve never had an orgasam from having sex though. My ex bf would eat me out, I would not cum, my ex and I would have penetrating sex, I would not cum, we did a lot of things and I WOULD NOT CUM. To make matters worst, I can’t even find my clit 🙁 so one day I was up watching porn and I was super turned on by it, then before I knew it I started feeling a slight thumping sensation around the top of my vulva, my legs shook a little, and I had a strange feeling in the bottom of the stomach. I tried watching porn again later on that week to see if it would happen again but it didn’t. I tried numerous times to masturbate but I can’t find my clit. I’m overweight so could that be a factor of why I can’t find it? But my two questions are, did I have an orgasm and how do I find my clit to make it happen again?