I have 2 wonderful boys, a 1yr old and a 2yr old, and am currently pregnant with our first girl due in November. Just before we were surprised with this pregnancy, we had sold almost everything that didn't fit into our vehicle and moved across country to raise our kids closer to my husband's family. I haven't really met anyone or made close friends here yet, and we obviously don't have anything for a girl since this is our first. One of my husband's cousins asked me to please have a shower so she can buy things for the baby, but no one has offered to throw one for me. Isn't it taboo and seemingly greedy to host your own?