So this man and I, let’s call him Zed... so Zed and I have done it many times... and a couple hours after we’ve done it.. I go to the washroom, pee and there’s blood when I wipe... last time Zed and I did it, there was more blood than usual and it wasn’t my period because I just ended it a couple days before that and he never did it hard and I wanted him to go hard, but he didn’t want to hurt me.. so like is this issue normal?