Who should pay?


I have really bad anxiety about dates. My ex took me on NONE so I feel so new to this. This guy and I have been talking, I met him on tinder, and I know we will hang out soon. Not sure what we will do but our conversations have been pretty innocent. Well when we hang out should we split? I guess technically it wouldn’t be a date. I’m just so used to guys using me for money. Is it the right thing for him to offer to pay since he’s the man (this is a major turn on for me). HELP!!!