About to give up 🤷🏼‍♀️

So after trying everything and everything not working we have been told that Ivf is the next step. The only issue...how in the world am I going to pay $14,000? Our dr doesn’t do payment plans and wants the money up front. So me and my husband are trying to find a good loaner and of course that isn’t going good either. It sucks to be told that the only way I’ll ever have a baby is to pay that much money and it still isn’t a 💯 that it’ll be a success. It seems like the more I try the more I get pushed back 🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m ready to give it up.

I have pcos and we have been ttc for 5 years now 😔