Why not me ugh

So my friend who is 24 and single with a 1.5 year old, just told me she accidentally got pregnant while on BC pills (she had taken antibiotic for strep and didn't know it could affect her BC), by her new BF (not her current child's father) and she's not going to have it, cuz it's not the right time for her or him, got some pill from her dr that will cause miscarriage once taken

And here i am, 3 years ttc and just experienced my first miscarriage just a few weeks ago, like OMG this is so unfair