Obviously in an ideal world, both would decide together. But say that the two simply can’t agree and it comes down to one or the other. Who do you side with more?

Backstory: I had a loss before and didn’t tell anyone about the pregnancy that time around. It was miserable to go through alone. Because of this, I want to announce it to immediate family early in case Something happens and I need support again. I also feel sick a f and would rather just be honest about why. My husband vehemently wants to wait till Xmas to announce when we’re in the second trimester because he’s a private person who doesn’t want to talk about loss if it happens again and he thinks would be cuter to do it when everyone was together.