After an incident that happened years ago and the years of verbal abuse I went through with my ex husband, my sex life has literally dwindled into practically hardly ever anymore. I use to run in college and I was always around 125-130, but after the verbal abuse and going through a divorce, all I've wanted to do is eat. I know I'm 5'11", but now I'm about 180 pounds and I hate it. We started eating right and walking, but without seeing results it's hard to look at myself in the mirror.

My fiancé thinks I'm so beautiful in every way, but that's hard for me to except that right now. I've looked into pills to help me get my sex drive back. I'm tired of seeing my fiancé sexually frustrated, but with him pushing the subject, it doesn't help the situation either. Any suggestions?