I wanna try doggy again but shaving or waxing first?

i've tried it once and it was nice but i dont wanna try it again until i can figure out what to do about my butt hair. do you guys shave it or wax it? i dont want him looking at my ass and being grossed out. i usually only do it at night cause i'm self consious so that might also be a reason to not to it cause i 100% dont want his dick to be accidently rammed into my ass in the dark 😐