Hi ladies! I just need an outside view of my situation.. I'm 23 yo and 10 weeks pregnant. My brother is 24 and we've always had a weird relationship, sometimes we'll be cool but most times we can't stand each other..... Well iam so done with him at this point. looooong story short, first thing he did to cross me was tell my dad that I was pregnant. AFTER I told him that I was waiting until I went to go visit our dad on Nov 16th. I got my dad a card and everything to surprise him. And when I finally saw him he was acting strangely and not really excited for me. My brother doesn't like my bf, for WHATEVER reason, my brother is an addict and barley spends time with ME. And when he does spend time with the family he's high as a kite. So I know my brother was telling my dad bad things about my bf.... my bf and I moved back to my home town when I found out I was expecting as we were leaving our old apartment due to being late on rent, my bf had lost his job and I'm pretty sure my brother was talking crap about that..... Well when my bf and I moved back to my home town we were staying with my grandmother and she offered to help us get into our own place and get the family involved so we can have a few months paid so my bf and I have time to look for new jobs and save money. Well once my brother heard the news he starts calling my grandma and won't talk to her while I'm there so tells her to meet him later. She does, and then comes back later that night telling me, "This is the last time I'm ever helping you!! So if you guys fuck it up that's not my problem" Total change of attitude!!!!! So I talk to my sister who was there and she told me that my brother was telling her not to help me. That we won't pay anything well just fuck it up, that I need to figure it out on my own blah blah blah. And my mom who said she would chip in, IS NOT HELPING ANYMORE!!!! Side note: my brother is the biggest manipulator in the world, he bullies my mom and grandma to get what he wants and thinks he deserves the world. Well guess who was looking at apartments after that talk.... MY BROTHER!!!! And guess who's going to help him.... MY MOTHER!!!!!

Honestly I just feel so betrayed. What kind of brother acts like him. He really wants his younger Pregnant sister to struggle?? He's fine with that outcome it seems. Or it's like he doesn't think I deserve the help but he does?? Like seriously who goes out of their way to try and stop a pregnant woman from receiving help?! His own sister at that.

And one last thing I'm writing this because my mom had a thanksgiving dinner last night and she said my brother wouldn't be there I show up and I see his car outside. So I told her I'm sorry I wanted to be there but I refuse to be around him. Am I wrong?!

For those of you who read all of this... I love you. Lol