Anyone feeling this?

Question

I love this baby so much but I feel like I'm not as bonded with it as my first idk if it because I don't know the gender yet or it still doesn't feel real but I hate this feeling I hope it soon goes away. Anyone else feel this way?

Answer

I’m 20 weeks with first and everyone keeps asking if I talk to him. I find it odd to talk to my stomach. Wondering if I’ll get past that lol

Answer

Well, I’m not sure when other people feel bonded but for me I feel a little better after choosing a name but not truly bonded til after the baby is born.

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I’m actually scared of the reverse 
With my son my placenta prevented me from feeling movement 
I had wanted a girl I know awful to admit but it was the truth at the time 
I had an unplanned c section didn’t get to bond 
Went straight back to 60 + hour weeks while my husband stayed home
This time I feel my baby 
She’s a girl 
I’m taking at least 6 months off to be with her because I can 
I’m trying for a vaginal
I’m terrified I might feel a stronger bond with this child than my son and I feel gross guilty and awful about it. I obviously love my son very much he’s my entire world ... but just what if I have a stronger connection with my daughter? I want it to be equal ....

Answer

It’s  pretty common!

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