Baby daddy problems
So, I got a positive pregnancy test on thanksgiving morning. My on/off boyfriend had been told that it was a possibility and that I was going to take a test when I got home from his place that morning. When I was leaving, he told me he didn’t want to do this anymore and basically tried to end things. He has paranoia issues and ridiculous thoughts that I won’t go into but he acts like I’m out to get him in some way. Well, I took the test and got an immediate positive. I couldn’t get ahold of him all day...he had blocked me and wasn’t answering emails. I finally ended up emailing the pictures of the tests I took and Friday morning. The first thing he responds is, “Sounds good, we should take a paternity test as well.” Nothing else. Doesn’t talk to me on the phone at all or try to see me. I send him an email telling him I’m disappointed in his reaction and expected more. He calls over and over again yesterday and i didn’t answer. He finally texts and says he can’t be fully invested in this situation until we have a paternity test. I was very clear that i didn’t want to stress. I finally answer and he manages to get me completely worked up and told me he thinks I’m lying about being pregnant. I told him never to contact me again and blocked him. I forgot that texts still go through on my laptop and the last thing he says is this situation has gotten toxic and he’ll let me know when and where to go when he gets a blood test set up.
Sorry that was long.
I’m trying to stay calm but I’m a wreck.
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