WHY!?!!???!

i cant get wet i don’t know what’s wrong with me and i don’t get turned on when i try to finger myself, it’s so dry and im afraid when i’m finally going to have sex it won’t be wet or when someone fingers me i won’t be wet. i don’t know what is wrong with me!! and i’m afraid my partner won’t feel like i’m into them when i really am... please please help i feel like such an idiot