Unwanted Visitors....

Sorry this is a bit long. So I've had a very rough pregnancy. Lots of complications. It's hard to sleep at night when my pain is worse so I tend to nap a lot throughout the day. A girl I used to know as kids who I haven't seen in years runs into my mom. She tells my mom she wants to visit me. My moms like "texting her is better right now". This girl calls me and leaves a long voicemail and then texts me that she wants to stop over and see me. I have a tiny apartment that's about to get smaller with baby, I spend most of my time either in the hospital, at a Drs office or home in agony. I texted her back that I was thankful for her concern and her prayers but right now we (hubby and I) are not really up for visitors. I tried to be polite. Right now, if theyre not my mom or hubby, I don't feel up for company. She never responded to me. Is it rude of me to feel this way? She could have said "do you mind if I stop over?", "can we talk sometime?", something besides "I want to stop over".