Fiancé doesn’t initiate

Sex! I feel to be the one that ways does. We have amazing great sex but he never wants to start. He always wants me to suck his dick and then ride him. Honestly I love both but I just want him to touch me. If I don’t initiate then we don’t have sex. I’m going to talk to him about it tonight but I don’t want to come off as needed. What should I say? I know what I want to say lol