Am I 'too much'?

So, to give you some background, I am very introverted. I have a few friends, I like to stay at home and I hardly ever talk to people on social media. In fact, I went two years without it and on my recently got it again. I've also not long been diagnosed with Aperger Syndrome.

I was talking to this guy on Facebook who lives not far from me. He kept making 'Banter ' insulting my appearance and told me I'm too energetic. I told him at the start of the conversation we seemed very different people. Although introverted, I'm very forward and honest. I wasn't rude to him but i returned the banter by just saying he was jealous that I'm hyper and energetic because he's dull.

He then flipped out and said I'm 'just too much '.

So am I or is this guy just being a guy not liking that a woman returned the banter?