Dating scan - 9 weeks not 13 like expected?

Natz
I had been tracking my dates so I know for sure the date of my lmp which would make me 13 weeks but at the U/S midwife said baby is only around 9 weeks?
​She said there was a heartbeat but I'm concerned about the 4 week difference? I just can't see how it could be so wrong and now  worried baby maybe isn't growing properly :( 
​(I lost one at 11 weeks and one at 6 before) 
​Got 12 week scan booked again in 3 weeks to find out more.