About to sound extra/psycho

So...I’ve sent out multiple texts to fam to remind them about getting shots (flu and d-tap) since my daughter will be born smack dab in the middle of flu season. Some have gotten them, some have not. I was thinking about mailing out a “news letter” type thing to close fam and friend with a list of dos and don’ts when she is born. Mainly for my husbands family because they are DIRTY people 🤢 and don’t wash hands/have any sanitary values whatsoever. And I have a feeling they’ll lie to me about getting shots...plus anytime I’ve texted about it they ignore me...so thought this would be the next best option to show how serious I am about shots, cleanliness, sanitizing, no kissing baby etc. anyone done this or at least thought about it?