Pregnant while SIL is pregnant

Anyone else have a competing SIL? I’m seven weeks behind her... I’m STRUGGLING! Everything is a competition. My baby was measuring in the 10th percentile so we were worried as was the dr. Magically that week her baby was also measuring behind and it was far more of a worry than our baby. Which I was actually worried for her baby! Come to find out she lied and just wanted the attention back. I don’t care about the attention. My husband was just updating his family.

We had a combined baby shower. (Her idea) She told everyone my baby was going to be really big so make sure they get big baby things. Her baby was going to be tiny so she needed little things.... now I have a lot of really big baby items (which will work great! Less for me to buy later, but.... why?!?!)

Now my baby is still measuring small. I don’t get it. She brags about how she hopes she goes early and her baby will finish growing in the nicu so she doesn’t ruin her body.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 talks about how big my baby will be compared to her tiny baby. I’m at a loss