My SO isnt romantic.. at all

Maybe im just being ridiculous (he always makes me feel that way) but he hasnt done anything special for our anniversaries, and i have to beg him to do anything romantic(and plan it myself), even for valentines day! We're expecting #2 and I cant help but feel like ive made a mistake. I truely love him but this is not what i pictured my love life being like..

And yes.. i do romantic things for him. I just wish he was more romantic as thats something that is really important to me. I feel like ive lowered my standards to be happy with him sometimes..

I would just die if he planned out something thoughtful for us. Even if it was just a small picnic. I've communicated this to him so many times..