I’m sick of him saying this shit to me!!!
I love my man with all my heart, I’ve been living with him for three years, but he makes comments like he doesn’t trust me EVERY DAY.
To be clear he lets me have friends, he lets me go out by myself, he lets me stay with family for as long as I want, he lets me do anything, and he doesn’t even text me to check on me. Only sometimes he will send me I love you texts while I’m out.
BUT it’s the stupid ass comments he makes. Like every day when I get home from work he says “how many guys hit on you today?” He dramatically acts super suspicious of me when I get on my phone sometimes. He says shit like “yeah make sure you exit the page before I come over by you.” And much much more.
Now maybe you are thinking he’s just trying to be cute, but believe me, after hearing it every single day, and the way he says it, it would make anyone want to bash him over the head with a shovel. I actually think he thinks being like that is entertaining for him. Because I’ve had tons of talks with him about this. I’ve told him this acting like he doesn’t trust me shit stops NOW. Does he find humor in making me angry?
And today was my breaking point. I was going out to the store (after asking him if he wanted to come and he said no) and he made a bunch of comments like “I’m gonna follow you” and “where are you really going” and kept giving me side glares and I told him I was fucking sick of it. I told him AGAIN how he’s acting the way my abusive ex’s use to act. I told him “you may think you’re being funny, but it’s not funny to me. My ex’s use to say that shit to me except they’d hit me as they did it. And you don’t care? You’re just gonna keep it up?” He didn’t say anything.
I’m just so annoyed.
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