Family drama
So yesterday 12/07/18 was my 2 year anniversary with my fiancé and the whole day was going great until night came. My fiancé still lives with his mom while I live with his aunt. He dropped me off at his aunt house and we noticed his sister car parked in the driveway so she called his phone after we got in front of the house and she asked him where he was at. After telling her that we were in front of his aunt house she told us to come inside she been waiting for us. Right then and there we knew it was something bad.
Fast forward his aunt, sister, him, and I had a whole argument about the fact that they think I’m separating him from his family and he even told them to their face that wasn’t the case but they weren’t believing him so things got chaotic really fast. His aunt and him were in each other’s face yelling and she told me to pack my stuff and go and then he went outside arguing with his sister and the aunt followed them which made it worse because my fiancé never liked the aunt. After that his sister then came charging in at me and she said “After you drop that baby I’m coming for your ass” I couldn’t help but laugh in front of her face. Yes I am 6 months pregnant and I had to stay calm so I wouldn’t stress but that didn’t last long. After she stormed out my fiancé left in his car and his sister left in her car and the aunt took a walk while I was sitting on the bed laughing at the whole situation because they didn’t phase me.
So today I had a argument with my fiancé about his family because this is the 2nd time his family has disrespected me and I warned him after the first time that I would be done with him and his family if it happened again which it did. So I left him. I feel like it’s pointless involving myself in drama like that over a man because I left my family for him and defending him only because my mom is racist towards his race and he can never defend me so I was over it. Even now that I have a baby to take care of I refuse to be surrounded by that energy or have my baby near them. I told him his family is not allowed anywhere near my kid or I will go to jail because I am very crazy sad to say. I then gave him back the engagement ring and the necklace he got me with the ring and I started packing my stuff at his aunt’s house and plan on leaving the Friday coming up.
My thing is I hope I’m not just reacting off feelings because no matter how much I love this man I don’t let disrespect slide when it comes to me. I respected his family way too much even after his mom said she gonna do blood work on my baby to see if it’s his. It makes me mad because his family swears he’s an angel but when he’s around me he tells me how much he hates them and can’t wait to get far away from them but to them he’s all lovey dovey. So in their eyes he’s such a good person and so good to me but they don’t know him as well as they thought they did and neither did I. They think I’m the problem when it really is him. And the fact that he can’t see it bothers me to the point where if you can let your family disrespect me more than once and have your mom try to get a paternity test on my baby then you gotta go. I am way too into making sure my baby lives happy to be dealing with that type of problem.
So what do you guys think I should do? Am I right or wrong? Or should I try to work things out with him? I’m
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