Still so pissed at the in laws.

So I had my baby two months ago and thing didn't go as planned. now I haven't gotten along with in-law since I learned what kind of people they are. The are mentally abusive to my husband. i could write a book on the shitty things they have done to him and myself within just a year. They have told us that we weren't ready to have a baby and that they better take our baby and raise him. Umm hell no! I want my son thank you very much. mind you we don't even live in the same town as them. When my son was born, they had to take him to a different hospital because he was born with a heart problem and they didn't know what it was. He has to have open heart surgery in the next very months from now. His family got the the hospital to see my son as I only got to see him on a video camera. to say my heart was breaking is an understatement. I asked them not to touch his face since I was learning how to breast feeding him and my breast feeding consultant was helping me. she told me not to mess with his face unless I was gonna feed him because he would be looking for my breast to feed. I had to watch as they messed with his face! not the top of his head, but his face! He was looking for me and needing me and I wasn't there, and I should have been. i was heart broken and started to cry because it felt like I was failing him. So I called my husband and asked him to tell them not to touch his face because it was breaking my heart to see him looking for me. They got super pissed off and me and just left my husband all alone. Luckily my brother was there and stepped up to help my husband not lose it. The next day, I got a text from his sister, and she was telling me that I had no right and that she was the aunt and that I shouldn't tell her what to do with her nephew. first of all, He is MY son not yours. You have no right to him what so ever and I will be the one that decides who will be in his life, so don't fuck with me. I will not bend for anyone and definitely not his family after the shit they put me through and my husband. I will not let them use my child as a game piece in their fucked up game.

Then I found out, that some of my husband's nephew's are saying that his youngest sister had violated them. No one is doing a fucking thing about it! So now I have them on my case about wanting to take my son. his sister still lives with his parents! I don't trust his parents and I sure as fucking hell don't trust his sister. my husband is only half on my side because he believes that she would have never did something like that and his parents are the best in his eyes. which is understandable because they mentality abused him his whole life.The reason they don't like me, is because I have put a stop to it. I protect my husband from them for years now and I will continue to do so. I will not back down and I will not let them get my son as well!

( they believe that women should be submissive and do as their husbands says)

That is not how I was raised and I will be a strong woman, like the women before me, so being it on! because I am not going anywhere!

There is way more that they have done, but that would be a whole book.