Do SAHM’s have the easy life.

This post is in no way attempting to provoke arguments between working moms, and SAHM’s. My intention is to try and dissolve, resolve, or try to better understand the reasons behind why so many people have the personal belief that sahm’s have the easy way out when their devotion to serve their home and family is selfless and a continuous day-long effort to keep the checks and balances in line in every aspect? And on the other side of the question, why do SAHM’s feel that working moms are trying to escape the hardships of raising a family aside from the need to earn income to help sustain needs in life and support the family, or concentrate on a career they love rather than be fully devoted to their family? Some moms have a choice to do one or the other, some do not. There are many facets to both sides that complicate circumstances. Why do we judge each other so much? Why is one effort taken as lazy or easy, while the other is taken as selfish or more significant?