Is it ok to masturbate while your SO is sleeping?

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I tend to masturbate a lot while my wife is sleeping. We have sex but I have a very high sex drive compared to hers so sometimes I wake up on the middle of the night and need to rub one out. I always feel wrong about it like I’m betraying her. Even tho while I’m doing it I’m either rubbing on her or looking at her body. I never fantasize about any woman but her.

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Try waking her up instead. It might turn her on....

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Im a woman and I lay next to my bf as he sleeps ever so peacefully. While rubbing my twat likes it come into contact with poison ivy 🤷🏽‍♀️😂 it feels ok to me.

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Id at least tell her you do it. Someone women would be weirded out to find out instead of you just telling her.

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Its your body and it is completely normal and natural to masturbate. You don’t have to tell her you do it, I’m sure she assumes you do, and I’m sure she does also. If it’ll make you feel better you can tell her but you shouldn’t feel bad.

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Yeah I guess it’s fine but fairl creepy that you rub on her and look at her haha

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Ya it’s your body

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I mean to each his own. I personally would be creeped out if I woke up and my SO was wacking the Willy next to me. But it’s personal opinion and preference. I would ask your wife if I were you. Don’t bring it up directly just ask something like, “how would you feel if I woke up in the middle of the night and masterbated while you were sleeping.”

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I'd tell her. Maybe she'll be more inclined to help meet your higher sex drive needs.

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You rub on her while she sleeps? NOT OKAY

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I was with a guy who had problems getting it up and keeping it up, and he had almost no sex drive... BUT I caught him using a toy he bought to use on me, while watching porn, not only while I was sleeping but also while I was putting my daughters on the bus. I was extremely upset, because it made me feel like I just didn't do it for him. He always used the excuse that he was going to have sex with me, he just needed to get hard first. 
I'm now engaged to a man who has a sex drive to match mine. He and I have talked about porn and masturbation, and agreed that neither of us feel the need to do it, because we're both always willing and ready to satisfy the other, even if it means waking each other up ☺
Anyway, I would talk to her about whether she wants to be woken up or if she doesn't mind you going solo like you have been.

Is it ok to masturbate while your SO is sleeping?

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