Bf invited his family over during finals week
Just a messy rant and I guess I have to suck it up this time.
I'm already stressed because I have a final, four papers, and a ton of homework to hand in for the next two weeks. My boyfriend's brother asked if he could come over next weekend and I said sure.
Today when I was getting ready for a nap his brother calls. My boyfriend chats with him for a bit before they add the other brother to the call. This brother invited himself, his wife, and toddler over to our one bedroom apartment. So five people, not including my boyfriend and I are expected to fit into our living room/kitchen area. From Monday to Wednesday when I still have class and have to hand in papers.
I had a little freak out about it because I was counting on his family visiting before the next semester starts. Not during my last week when my boyfriend is off. My solution so far is to try and do all the work tonight and tomorrow so I can clean up the apartment. Its not really suitable for guests yet since we just got new furniture and a mess to sort through.
I'm not sure how they will all fit, especially with a baby. They're bringing an airbed (or two?). We have a loveseat that maybe the toddler can go on with my body pillow for safety. I really doubt they'll fit because our table goes into the living room.
My boyfriend's defense was that I have my two younger high schoolaged sisters over a lot. I've had them over on weekends or one at a time. Most of the time I'd go away to my dad's house because my youngest sister had a serious depression issue. She constantly cried for me to come home so I did when I didn't have class. There was only one time my boyfriend had to sleep in the office because we had moved the fouton there instead of in the living room.
I'm just stressed about all the work I have to do and now cleaning is added on. I wish my boyfriend had just asked them to wait until after Christmas. That way we could all spend time together without me being stressed. Also maybe them coming separately. One brother and his fiance. The other with his wife and toddler. I also have to move my cats to my aunt and uncle while they're all here to protect them and the baby. She's a little tornado and the reason her parents ferret almost died.
I don't think they even know the week they're coming is my finals week.

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