Done w. His procrastination

I've recently realized that my husband isn't going to change...

Prior to TTC, I told him he needed to get a 2nd job to help w. The baby and other financials. He agreed to it, although kicking the whole time that it's hard for him to find work (he has a record). Being the nice person i am, i told him well we have 9 months and im sure something will pop up. I'm 5 mths pregnant now and nothing. I feel like we're not gonna have anything ready for when the baby comes 😣😥

What set me off- yesterday I asked him about it and he goes well I apply and no one calls me. I am growing tired, so I asked for his phone and started applying for stuff on indeed. An email came in about 1 hr later for an interview, I had him go. When he got back r seemed he had the job already he just had to do a drug screen in 7days. I lost it because there's n way he'll quit smoking in that time.

I went off on a rant about how everytime I try to love us forward, there's a big old stop sign on his end. He just walked off and went to the bedroom, as if I was just having one of my pregnant rants and it would "blow over".

TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE, I've realized that he has just been leeching from me all this time. What I mean is he has no accomplishments to show for anything. He just enjoys my accomplishments as they come, as his own. I've always had my own place and he's always lived with me. I've always made more than him. He comes home and plays video games but if I ask him to help me clean or something else, he catches an attitude before doing it.. I'm tired.. and yes I'm ranting but this will not pass. If I bring it up he goes, "well I try and no one calls me", agrees to do it bug never delivers" and another time told me that "he could have left when he found out I was pregnant but he's still here" so that makes him a better man somehow .... Ugh jus had to get that out.

I feel like he's been used to always doing the minimum cuz his mother and the women in his life always allowed it. We have such different upbringings, like i had such a tough life and his was all easy. So I don't know if I'm being too harsh, but come on! Having a baby by a boy🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️