if your s/o was always on their cellphone and never focused on you unless they want to share something on their screen, would you be annoyed ?

I’m a pretty independent woman who doesn’t really require much to keep happy. I work from 8-5 (I get home around 5:30pm) and my s/o works overnight and he leaves out around 9:30pm. We have 4 hours to chat it up, eat dinner together, and try to squeeze in a show or movie. The only problem is HE NEVER PUTS HIS PHONE DOWN !!!! at the dinner table he has phone in left hand fork in right, when we’re watching tv, when we’re talking, or just laying in bed he’s always browsing through his damn phone. So today I used a vacation day and decided to stay home and relax. I woke up around 10am started a movie, paused it and cooked us breakfast. (He was still asleep) I brought him his breakfast in bed, pressed play on the movie and went back in the kitchen to clean the mess. When I came back lord and behold he was on his damn phone !!!!!! I rolled my eyes and he’s like what’s your problem ??? So I told him my issue. He never gives anything else his full attention except his phone. I work 9 hours during the week which gives him so much time to himself and phone ! I believe I deserve his undivided attention for atleast 4 hours or a full day if I take vacation to chill with him. His response was “atleast I’m here, I could be out doing something else you don’t like. We live together so who cares that I’m always on the phone, get over it because you’re concerned about the wrong things”. then he goes on to say the movie I picked was stupid, which he didn’t even take 5 seconds to give it a chance. So he told me I have an attitude problem and he went in the computer room to browse on the desktop and his phone ! 😓😓😓 I’m honestly so sick of him. I’m not one to try and make rules for a grown man. I thought voicing my feelings would help. Clearly he sees nothing wrong with what he’s doing.