When should I test?

Sooo....this is my first time making a post so bare with me!!!

History of me: was on birth control pill for 10 years. Stopped in May 2018 to try and conceive our first baby. Got my period back in August then not again until November. Was supposed to start 3 days ago but nothing yet other than mild lower belly cramps just like if I were to start my period. Tired (but it also comes with my profession) and nausea for about half the day. My husband and I were “active” every day during my fertile window as well as on ovulation day. I’m trying to no read into my symptoms or read too many of these posts, but I can’t stop thinking “what if!” I’m trying to make myself wait until like day 9 or 10 of the cycle.

What do y’all think? I’m not good at playing the waiting game but I’m also tired of being let down.