Just really sad. Help?

Question

So like in October me and an old boyfriend started to work on us. But because of his cheating previously I was really insecure. I admit I was kind of annoying because I’d pick on everything. But he’d act completely single on social media. Like sharing pictures of girls and everything like I just wasn’t a thing. He told me I was annoying basically and that he was over the situation. This was a month ago and it’s been really heavy on my heart. I tell him I love him at least once a week. As I still do. I just don’t know what to do. I really do love this boy. With my whole heart. Like do I say how I feel or just block him a keep crying. I don’t know what he did to me but I can’t get over the feeling of this sadness. I want to say something so bad but I feel like he won’t care. What do I do 😭😭😭😭😭

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If he loved you he wouldn’t cheat on you nor would he disrespect you on social media. I recommend you just move on and find someone that loves you back.

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You’re putting yourself in a dangerous situation emotionally by continuing to message him things like that now you’ve broken up. 
It’s so hard getting over someone you love, but having done it myself and knowing I needed to, here’s my process:
- first, delete his number, contact, and block him on everything on social media. If you want to send like a “final” message to him first, do, but make sure it doesn’t open up conversation. Needs to be something like “I’ve been struggling with coming to terms with the dynamics of our new relationship (or lack of) and because of that I’ve been finding it hard to move on. So until I feel I can communicate with you positively, I’m going to be deleting you as a contact”. The reasoning for doing this is because while you can still message him, you will do, and while you still have him on social media, you’ll be checking up on the things he does. Neither of these things are healthy and both will prevent you from ever moving on.
- second, you need to write a list of all the reasons you broke up, and how it made you feel. Absolutely every little thing he did that upset you. Whenever you feel sad or like you miss him, read this list.
- finally, start reconnecting with old friends. Start doing the things you used to do before you got together with him. What hobbies did you have? Are there any new things you want to try? Throw yourself into new projects or activities and focus on them. Focus on old friends you may have lost touch with. 
All these things are distracting you while time passes, because the only thing that really heals a broken heart is time. But you can make the process easier or harder depending on your actions. It doesn’t seem like it now but one day you’re going to wake up (might be in a week, a month, who knows) and you will feel better than the day before. Grab onto that feeling and use it as your motivation to keep going. Slowly, you will get to a point where you can’t believe you asked for advice on this page because you’re so much happier without him.

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He seems like he’s un interested leave him alone move on ur worth much more

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I understand how that felt. I dated this guy for almost 2years on and off. I thought I love him with all my heart(I felt like it at that time) he cheated, I want to give another try because I’m a dummie for love. Mind you I was very chill person and completely trust someone until that someone give me reason not to. He did gave me a reason not to but he said that he was sorry and said that I wasn’t giving him enough attention that he felt the need to seek somewhere else. I was heartbroken and thought maybe he was right.
He treated me like that guy treated you. The only ones knows I existed were only his close friends, he never put me on social media and when he did, it looked like I was one of his friend ( I’m not crazy over social media thing and I rarely post something too but I felt like the need for him to do it to show me some changes since he cheated)
He broke up with me every times I went traveling because he said he can’t handle being far away but still talk to me everyday and convince me and he didn’t do anything with someone else. Its more like a break rather than actually break up I guess.
I hate what I’ve become when I’m around him because I can’t trust him and I just feel like this insecure little bitch, I just hate that and I hate myself for becoming like that. 
We tried again for a month before I left for another vacation. We live together and we have a dog together. Oh he always used the dog to get me back to him. I’m a sucker for dogs😩. 
Things went great but I just feels insecure in the back of my mind since he didn’t really change but he did told his parents that we live together so I thought that was a start but nope. I saw a girl messaged him in a flirty way (I didn’t went through his phone it was laying next to me). 
I tried to convince myself that it was just the girl but I won’t lie that made me sick to my stomach like I wanted to puke my guts out.
Fast forward to when I was leaving he drove me to the airport and he said that we weren’t together but he has feelings for me. At that point, I never feel more free,  I feel like all the weight I’m carrying on my shoulder just vanished and at that moment I left him.
About 2 or 3weeks on my vacay I met someone, we are together now, he shows me how he love me in every way. I’m head over heels in love with him.
Sorry for super long comment but my point is, leave and the right person will come along. Where you are right now was exactly me before.

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I know it’s hard. I know it’s sad, like you have this heavy feeling in your chest (I like to think that area is your soul) and at the moment your soul is sad and needs to heal. I know you probably know the best thing to do is block him and stay away from him and I also know that’s easier said than done, but it needs to be done. Time does heal and you will too, you will find someone who loves you just as much as you love and when they do all this hurt will be for a reason because then, you will know how you should be treated. Stay strong girl ❤️

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I just hope you find time to read/delete those other 852 messages 😂😂😂

Just really sad. Help?

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